Husband: Richard Deming
Born: Aug-30-1864 in Providence, Providence Co, RI 1,2,3,4
Died: Mar- 4-1937 in Los Angeles, CA 3,2
Buried: in North Burial Ground Cemetery, Providence, RI 5
Resided: in Short Hills, Essex Co, NJ 3
Census: 1930 in Maplewood, Essex Co, NJ
Census: 1920 in Verona, Essex Co, NJ
Census: 1900 in Ossining, Westchester Co, NY
Census: 1880 in Providence, Providence Co, RI
Occupation: construction engineer, insurance executive 3
Father: Thomas Durfee Deming (1838 - )
Mother: Sarah Jane Dunham (1839 - 1879)
Other spouse 1
Notes
Wife: Gladys Byrd Tostevin
Nickname: Mimi
Married: Feb-27-1917 in Honolulu, HI 6
Born: May-14-1891 in New York 7,8,2,4
Died: Dec-24-1983 in Multnomah Co, OR 7,8,2
Buried: (ashes) in North Burial Ground Cemetery, Providence, RI 5
Resided: in Sweet Home, Linn Co, OR 9
Resided: 1949 in Seattle, King Co, WA 10
Census: 1930 in Maplewood, Essex Co, NJ 11
Census: 1900, 1910 in Brooklyn, Kings Co, NY
Father: Samuel H. Tostevin (1867 - 1910)
Mother: Mary E. Powers (1868 - )
Notes
F Child 1: Katharine Tostevin Deming Born: Sep-26-1920 in New Jersey 11 Died: Jan-12-1990 in Gresham, Multnomah Co, OR Census: 1930 in Maplewood, Essex Co, NJ Husband: Donald D. Randell b. Apr- 8-1920 d. May-18-1994
F Child 2: Mary Tostevin Deming Born: Aug-18-1923 in New York 12 (see note 1) Died: Dec-11-2007 in Clackamas Co, OR 12,13 Resided: in Lake Oswego, Clackamas Co, OR 14 Resided: formerly in Portland, Multnomah Co, OR 15 Resided: from 1965 in Oregon 12 Resided: 1949 in Seattle, King Co, WA 16 Census: 1930 in Maplewood, Essex Co, NJ Education: Kent Place School (Summit NJ), Colby Junior College (New London NH) 16 Husband: Fritz Leopold Louis Max Kramer b. Mar-18-1918 d. Jan-14-2013 Married: Jun-15-1949 in Seattle, King Co, WA 17
Sources: (1) Rhode Island Births, 1636-1930 (online), Ancestry.com. (2) Headstone (year only) (3) Obituary, New York Time, Mar 5 1937, p. 21. (4) 1900 Census. (5) Headstone, http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~rigenweb/cemetery/cemetery106.html. (6) Newspaper wedding announcement, From the column "For and About Women": "TO WED HIS SECRETARY. NEW YORK -- That Richard Deming, vice president of the American Surety Company, will marry his secretary, Miss Gladys Tostevin, in Honolulu, February 27, became known yesterday. Mrs. Mary E. Tostevin, of Oak Grove Road, Caldwell, N. J., admitted her daughter's engagement and said she would start in about a week for San Francisco to join Mr. Deming, who is on an extended business trip. The couple probably will remain in Honolulu a year.", Trenton Evening News, 2/10/1917, p. 7. (7) Death Record - Online. (8) Social Security Death Index. (9) Social Security Death Index, Social Security card issued in New Jersey before 1951. (10) Newspaper engagement announcement of daughter. (11) 1930 Census. (12) Obituary. (13) Oregon Death Index, 1898-2008 [database on-line], Ancestry.com. (14) Social Security Death Index, Social Security card issued in Massachusetts before 1951. (15) U.S. Public Records Index, Vol 1, Ancestry.com. (16) Newspaper engagement announcement, Seattle Daily Times, 3/14/1949. (17) Newspaper wedding announcement, Wedding held at the University Unitarian Church. The bride's sister, Mrs. Donald D. Randell, was matron of honor. Best man was Mr. George Spitzer. Seattle Daily Times, 7/8/1949. Event Notes Note (1) Obituary states birthplace as Maplewood, Essex Co, New Jersey, which was her childhood home; but 1930 Census of Essex County shows her birthplace as New York.